During Divorce – Getting Through the Trying Times

One of the biggest and often most painful times in a woman’s life is her transition through a divorce. If you are in this situation, you know that all of your dreams for a happily ever after have come to an end. That does not mean, however, that you have to give up on your dreams of a happy ending. There is life after divorce, but first we have to get your through the trying and challenging times so that you can emerge stronger, happier, and more self-assured to take on your future, and that is where divorce coaching excels.

Together, we will put an action plan together that will allow you to view the situation you are in with open eyes and a clear mind. There are many different aspects to tackle during a divorce, and each one is important to understand and find a coping mechanism to handle.

It does not matter if you are the one who initiated the divorce or if this was something you did not want or did not see coming. We have to get down to the fact that this divorce is occurring, and find ways to make it as painless and smooth a transition as possible. This is where divorce coaching is going to help you get and stay strong and focused.

The Coping Tools of Divorce Coaching

In everything we do in life, we need tools. Cooking requires pots and utensils, a builder needs construction equipment, an accountant needs a calculator, and a woman going through a divorce needs her own set of tools to help make it through this transition.

Transitional coaching through divorce will help you gather and utilize the following tools:

  • Building a support team of caring people that will be there for you
  • Forging a working relationship with your attorney
  • Carving out “me” time and what that will look like
  • Strengthening your own self-resolve
  • Improving communication skills

Once you have a clear understanding of the “tools” you have available to help you through this time, the following areas will become much easier to handle:

  • Managing the children, their needs, and their schedules
  • Co-parenting during a difficult divorce
  • Dealing with conflict with your ex
  • Single parenting
  • Healing yourself
  • Divorce mediation – holding it together

Divorce Coaching Can Make a Difference

Divorce coaching can make a difference in how you hold up emotionally during one of the most trying and difficult times of your life. No matter how you feel about getting divorced, the transition to single life is still there. At the end of this process, a new you is going to emerge like a butterfly coming out of a cocoon. Transitional coaching in life takes you from where you are to where you want to be, and this process can help you move forward into the beautiful garden we call life.

Yes, divorce may be difficult, challenging, frustrating, scary, confusing, and upsetting, but this is just a short period of time in what can and will be your extraordinary life. You can emerge stronger, happier, and more in control of your own destiny than you ever thought possible. Let me help you see the possibilities in front of you and help you make them come true. Please contact me for a free consultation to discuss your personal situation.